result day

my blog dead.
very busy since i had been worked.
even sunday,i have to wake up early.

finally.my result was out last thurs.
not nervous at all before the day.
i was thinking about if someone shock when they see my new look.haha=)
crazy girl!!!

result haven't out yet in the afternoon.
i thought we are the latest who get the result.
i got what i want.i couldn't close my mouth at that moment.

had a  great chat with mei xian and fion.
we chatted until evening.
i think this maybe the last time to see 0907 group in college.
miss ya=)

坚强

要想在困难面前坚强，方法不是“忍”眼泪，而是你的内心真的能够承受得住！

如果你真的坚强，那么你面对困难的时候就不会流泪，而不是用你的坚强来“忍”眼泪。

你性格上的不够坚强，是因为你经历得太少承担得太少，一帆风顺太多了。

我们这一代独生子女，父母宠得太多，帮我们承担得太多，帮我们挡的困难太多，

在困难到来的时候，我们总会躲在他们身后，看他们解决，看他们承担。而他们老去，

很多事只能我们自己去承担的时候，我们已习惯害怕。 没有人天生就是坚强的，

坚强的人也只是在经历了许多之后，懂得去承担而已。

要变得坚强的你，就要懂得去经历。

当不幸和痛苦真的袭来的时候，

一次是很痛的；第二次，也许你会好一点；

第三次，也许你学会安慰自己了；第四次，也许你开始冷静了……

有一天不幸再来的时候，你不再哭泣，

而是冷静地思考，微笑着安慰和你同样受苦的人了！

不要放弃自己就是真正的坚强.

能够承认自己的缺点也是难能的坚强.

虚心是坚强,

努力是坚强,

正直是坚强

善良是坚强,

怜悯是坚强,

自责是坚强,

追求是坚强,

自爱是坚强,

宽恕是坚强.

学好坚强的人首先要学会爱惜自己.

但舍已又是最大的坚强.

真正的坚强不是肉体的外在表现.

不要为人的评价活著,要知道我们的生命远比他们眼中所看的重要.

你只要正确认识自己，能全面地看待他人和自己，

就会感觉自己没那么差，

而是自己可能感觉状态不是最佳或太在乎他人的看法或想法。

而他人的看法或想法往往存在片面性，引起你不必要的自卑感

一个人要正确认识自己，

因为人与人性格差异很大，

了解自己的性格优势与不足。

要学会扬长避短有助于形成自己独特的自信心。

人是不断变化发展的，

我们需要不断更新、不断完善对自己的认识，

才能使自己变得更好和更完美。

正确认识自己，就要作到用全面的、发展的眼光看自己。

所以人就特别需要充满自信来完成自己的目标，自己的事业......你就能成为强者。
 

首 先，你要有自信心，认为自己干什么事情都能行，

只有认识到通过自己的努力，自己一定能达到目标的。

从心灵上确认自己能行，自己给自己鼓劲。

只要有心理准 备，你就不会为一点困难而退缩。

相信，你就能充满信心完成任务。

你只要有了自信心什么困难都能克服，

什么事情都难不倒你；你的学业或者事业就会成功，你就是一个最有出息的年轻人。
 

当你拥有了自信，你还要学会广交朋友，

只有在朋友们推心置腹的话语中能给你一种安慰，

一种大胆说话的机会，一种锻炼你的场合，

让你不怕任何人，敢于表示自己的意见或建议，发表自己的见解。

因为朋友能让你远离孤独，才能融入社会而获得快乐。
 

没有友情的人生是暗淡的，

就像大地失去了太阳的照耀，没有光彩。

没有友情的人生是枯燥的，就像受了潮的火柴，

任你怎样摩擦，也点燃不起生活的希望之火。

没有友情的人生更是不完整的人生。

一个人活在世上，既然没有朋友，没有朋友的关怀，又怎能理解人生的真正乐趣呢？

 

 

只有充满了友情的人生才是充盈的，有意义的。

有位哲人说：两个人分担一份痛苦，那就只有半个痛苦；

两个人分享一份快乐，则有两份快乐。

当你陷入困境， 困窘急迫之时，

忽然得到朋友的真诚帮助，即使只是平常的一句安慰、鼓励的话语，你的心情会怎样？

是否会感到心灵得到了一种快慰的释放，觉得一股暖流从心底 升起，于是充满信心，浑身是劲？当你获得成功，欣喜万分时，若得到朋友的真心祝福时，你的心情又会怎样？

是否感觉幸福。因此，增强你的自信心，就能消除自 卑感。你就感觉自己是多么自信！

p/s:copied from an article!!

new hair style

went to kelana jaya to take our passport.

woke up at 6.30am.so sleepy.@@

did a hair cut.

tadaa!!!!

 i bet someone will ask :what's wrong with you??r u fever??y u so silly??(为什么你那么想不开？？）my cousin really asked the question that i mention above.LOL..

just wanna try short hair.i never cut my hair above my shoulder since i was in primary school.wanna try something new.heheXD

penny sis came to grandmum's house.didn't c her for a long time.she brought her wedding album.

                               

                                 i love tis picture!!

chat a lot with her.i noticed that our topic changed to become more adult.guess??
we were talking about pregnant.susan n i asked a lot about it..LOL..


went to 1u with susan yesterday.

watched black swan.it was a nice movie.
a bit scary.
we took our bags to cover eyes when it came to scary part.hahaXP

yesterday was penny sis's lunar birthday.
aunt joanne bought a cake for her.
another is for kuan,her birthday is next week.we celebrated together.

helped susan made a 3D puzzle which bought from 1u.

cute minnie!!i love minnie!!

at first,we thought the puzzle is from the top to the bottom.but we only have to make the head part only.lol...quite expensive for this small thing.

end

happy valentine day

i would like to share some valentine poems.

If I were...If I were a key, I would lock you;
If lightning, then I would shock you;
If I were a pier I would dock you;
If I had a band I would rock you.If I were a spoon, I would feed you;
If I were a house, I would deed you;
On Valentine’s Day, I must plead you,
Valentine, I really need you! 

Colors of Love
Love!
Love can be red, like the intense heat of a passionate kiss
the color of sweetness
the color of strawberries

Love can be blue, like the comfort we take in a pair of denim jeans
the color of strength
the color of perfect skies

Love can be yellow, bright and warm like the morning sun
like the sounds of laughters of children on the merry-go-round
like the sounds of fun from the boys flying kites in the open
fields

Love can be green, peaceful and serene I can hear your heart beats
it is the feeling of a loving hand that touch a grieving heart

it is the whispering of trusting words to a distressing soul

Love can be orange, the loudness of it can drive you up a wall
it can drive you to sing like nobody is listening
it can drive you to dance like nobody is watching

Love can be purple, the courage we need to love bravely and unselfishly
the moment I first kiss you i know that i am not afraid to risk involvement

the day the declaration of your love for me was made known to the world 

 

VALENTINE

V......is for Valentine  ; you are my only Valentine
A......is for I will Always be yours
L......is for Love at its most extreme
E.......is for Everlasting love ; Ecstatic love.
N.......is for Never-ending love  
T........is for we will Always be Together forever
I........is for you being Intelligent and Innocent;
N.......is for  Natures naughty way of saying I love you to
E.....is for Eternity our love is so ever lasting

VALENTINE IS YOUR NAME

VALENTINE IS YOUR GAME

VALENTINE DAY REMAINS THE SAME
VALENTINE PUTS MANY TO SHAME

YOU ARE MY VALENTINE;
YOU ARE MY ALL
VALENTINE IS YOUR NAME

ITS THE NAME I WILL CALL
MY SWEET SWEET VALENTINE

 

HAPPY VALENTINE DAY!!

情人节快乐！！ 

mini farewell

had a mini farewell for yee ling.
she went to austarlia for her laws studies yesterday.

we gather at fullhouse which in sunway giza.
non-stop talking when we gather.share our joy and pain .
took some picture.

ling

yee n ling

yee

three of us

remember our promise at the end of this year!!=)

great day

finally,i managed to watch "Great Day".
meaningful movie!!
i love one quote in the movie.

“我们在前半生遇到父母，父母在后半生遇到了我们。
父母照顾我们的前半生，我们只能照顾父母的后半生。
我们应该珍惜身边人，不让我们的前半生和后半生有任何遗憾。”
appreciate people who you care and love!!

原来有这么一个故事：（从官方网站得知）
从前有位老太太每天到寺里烧香，并且总是哭哭啼啼的。寺里的住持看久了，心里纳闷，就问老太太：“你为什么总是哭得不停呢？” “我有两个女儿。大女儿嫁给鞋商。小女儿嫁给伞商。我就为了这两个女儿在哭啊。“这不是很好吗？”住持问。老太太说：“天晴了，小女儿的伞卖不出去。下雨了，谁来买大女儿的鞋子？愁不愁人？住持说：“你可不可以这样想？”
天晴了，大女儿的生意红火。下雨了，小女儿的生意就有销路。这不是很好吗？

从此，老太太晴天，雨天都笑。只要你欣然接受，每种天气都有它的独特。人生也一样，你越想得到的东西，他就越可能离你远去。当你发现懂得如何接受风雨中的凌厉，如何欣赏晴天的暖和，那你就在享受你的生活。凡是往好的方面想，人会比较开心。希望大家都天天好天！！

had lunch at kenny rogers roaster restaurant.

my dish=)yummyXD

mocha but taste like milo.lolx

sis's spaghetti

sleepy eyes.

why looking at her spaghetti?

 i have something wanna share:

look!!what is this?nice right?is barbie jelly cake.unwilling to eat it.

chor 8

what a coincidence today!!
i met yee ling at restaurant.
she raised her hand up but i didn't notice that until she called me.
i'm so blur.chat with her for a while.
she's going to Australia soon.
i'll miss you=)

after that,when i went back to my seat.
i received yen's message.
she also in the restaurant with her family.
again.did a little chat with her .

uncle chia said i got a lot of friend(交友广阔).i'm very busy.go here and there.lolx.he likes to fool me.

2day is chor 8.chor 8 is a big day for hokkien people.
children loves this day too,because can ponteng on the next day.haha=)
but this year grandma doesn't celebrate this day.so sad T.T
in chor 8,we have a lot of fun.play firework.mum and aunties prepare a lot of delicious dishes.gambling.adults were playing mahjong.after 12a.m,you can heard the sound of fire crackle in everywhere.
and one more thing is celebrate my mum's birthday.chor 9 is my mum's lunar birthday!=）
here is last year's picture when we bai tian gong(拜天公）：

go t grandma's house later.ciaozXP