一封父亲的信

儿：

写这备忘录给你，基于三个原则：

（一）人生福祸无常，谁也不知可以活多久，有些事情还是早一点说好。

（二）我是你的父亲，我不跟你说，沒有人会跟你说这些事?

（三）这备忘录记载的，都是我经过惨痛失败得來的体验，可以为你的成长省不少冤枉路。

以下，便是你在人生中要好好记住的事：

What is life about??

LIFE isn't about keeping score. 

It's not about how many people call you 

and it's not about who you've dated or haven't dated at all. 

It isn't about who you've kissed, 

what sport you play, 

or which guy likes you. 

Exam and result day

I still can feel the numbness of my hand and leg.
What the hell happen on me??
It was over!All is well!
 

爱自己

无论看书还是看电视节目，都会看见“爱自己“这三个字。

“爱自己”似乎成了现在的一句时髦口号，每个人都在重 复说着相同的话，

这也提醒着我，我爱我自己吗？什么是爱自己？

这三个字看似简单，但却不容易做。

怎样才算真正的“爱自己”呢？

不同的人可能会有不同的感受和答案。

每个人都会以自认对自己最好的方式来“爱自己”，但是结果 往往会有很大的不同，

有些人发现所谓的“爱自己”，最终换来的却是使自己身心疲惫，

为什么明明“爱自己”，却会让自己这么痛苦和迷茫呢？

攀比；妒忌心

一旦与人攀比，心情就变得复杂起来了，麻烦事也会接踵而来。

“比”是两把匕首，一把刺向自己，一把刺向别人，

使两个原本无怨无仇的人彼此受伤。

更多时候，匕首刺不到别人，

只能扎在自己的心窝子里，使自己的心灵伤痕累累。
 

“人比人，气死人”，一个原本对自己的状况还满意的人，跟人一比，什么都不是了！

辛苦不比别人少，赚钱却不如别人多；本领不 比别人差，

升迁却落在别人后面；心眼不比别人坏，赞誉却全归了别人；

相貌不比别人丑，自己的那一半，带出去可真丢脸！

比来比去，才发现自己过的是垃圾人 生，没有一项拿得出手的东西。

愧悔之下，嫉妒心油然而生。

imu chariofare

I'm back.This post has been in draft for 2 months.

I was busy with final!!well,i have prepared for resit.

That's the terrible and worst exam that i ever had.*mou ngan tai*

Bla bla bla....

Let's get back to imu chariofare.

What is chariofare??

Chariofare consists of Charity Run and Carnival dedicated to raising funds for certain beneficiaries.

Chariofare is organised every two years.

There were some food booths and game booths which prepared by lecturers and students.

只求毅力勇气信心

 

祈求天赐给我力量，好让我熬过着艰难的两个星期。

关关难过，关关过！

希望能熬过！！加油=）

小小梦想，向往的生活

每次考试前，

脑里装得不是笔记，而是在发白日梦。（压力很大啊！！）

想想自己以后的路是怎样的。（一点都不专心）

生活中，我们都会有这样的经历：

开会的时候，聊天的时候，自己会有一段时间愣神，

耳朵明明听着别人讲话，脑子却一片空白，什么也没听见。

偶尔发呆无伤大雅，反而有利于心理健康。 （自我安慰）

mooncake festival

i'm so lazy to blog.
but some people are waiting for the video..
sorry for the delay post!!you know who you are..
okay let's begin.

celebrated mooncake festival at fren's house..
i was so rush..why my life always rush huh??=/
went to ipoh highway instead of seremban..gosh!!
i was lost..thx god i still managed to arrive to there..phew~

happy 21st birthday to me!

cant believe today is my last day of sem 3.
Time passed so fast.
Finally all the pracical exams were over.
felt not confident at all..
HOW COULD i make the unforgivable mistake???WHY??
anyway,it was over.No expectation on it at all..
better put all the effort on final. hope wont screw it up..

Alright back to the topic,
there are some many posts to be updated.
Ignored my lovely blog for one month due to the hectic uni life.=/

Okay.Let's start from my birthday post.
OMG!!already one month ago!now only want to blog it..

家不是放钱的地方而是放心的地方

 

家是什么？一间屋子？避风港？还是一个不想回的地方？

相信大家心中都有一个答案。

家是一个互相学习，互相体谅的地方。 

家就是引导我们前行的路标，家也是照亮我们由黑暗走向黎明的灯塔。　　

家很平凡，也很普通，再温馨的家庭也会出现争吵的画面。

以下是一个关于家的文章，挺有意思的：

lunch gathering

compare photo took from ipad and iphone..seem like ipad won..=P

just a small update.had a nice time to meet up 0907 buddies.future doctor,dentist and chiropratician.chat with jason and janice for hours in cafeteria.then brought janice to go around in imu.i never been to uni oral centre although i have studied there for one year.lolx..thanks to jason..we walked in like a boss.we supposed not to go in..lolx..hope see u guys again~

Love,

Yyhwei

不后悔选择

无论如何选择，只要是自己的选择，就不存在对错后悔。

过去的你不会让现在的你满意，

现在的你也不会让未来的你滿意。

当初有胆量去选，同样该有勇气把后果承受。

所谓一个人的长大，也便是敢于惨烈地面对自己：

在选择前，有一张真诚坚定的脸；

在选择后，有一颗决不改变的心。

orientation week

never get free since 1st day of sept until now.
gonna busy until mid of november..NOOO!!
exam everyweek,assignment,portfolio,EOS is around the corner.
a lot of things have to catch up..
skipped class a lot due to orientation.Opps.said too loud..shhh...

well,just finished orientation stuff last sat..
had a lot of fun with juniors.
have a good bunch,active,funny juniors.nice to meet u all.
let me refresh what we did in the orientation week..

要求不高就是幸福

很早以前就听过人家說：不幸福婚姻有很多种，幸福的婚姻只有一种。

哪一种呢？是积极的「互敬互爱」或消极的「互相容忍」，这些老生常談吗？

这些形容显然都不是那么強而有力。

Malacca trip

went to malacca with bff.

I was so excited before the trip.

I never went a trip with bff.

We always yamcha whenever we meet.lolx..

Straight away headed to malacca after my class.

Endless talk from I stepped into car until reached malacca.

Driver beh tahan us.haha..forgive us la..keke..

Good to have a friend work as a tour guide.

Thanks to ck to be our driver and tour guide.

Alright..let's talk about the trip.=)

Salute to Dato Lee Chong Wei

i believe everyone is talking about olympic badminton match today.

the match was fabulous although Dato Lee Chong Wei not the champion.

you still the best in our heart!!proud of you!!

you really did your best in this match.

the round 3 made everyone so nervous..so gan jeong.. 

The score of Lin Dan and Dato Lee Chong Wei kept score equally.

You can't stand the atmosphere if you have cardiovascular disease.

Heart beat was beating very fast as watched the round 3.

你是什么模样，你的爱情就长什么模样

爱情长什么模样，有谁见过？我这个婴儿班的更没看过。哈哈。。

身边一个男孩恋爱了，多甜蜜多温馨多美好的一件事！这是他的初恋，还是异国恋。打一开始就异国，我私底下认为这两人定是情比金坚，要么这大老远地怎么也开始不了啊。谁知不到三月就分手了，这男孩用的还是冷处理：不提分手就这么耗着对女方冷漠又冷淡，说是怕给别人留下他对感情太随便的印象，满心希望这女孩受不了冷淡可以主动提出分手。至于分手的原因则是这男孩不肯公开恋情，觉得还不了解女孩时机未到，怕公开恋情后失去身边的桃花运。女孩得知自是大怒，她早早公开恋情抱着百分百投入的心态没留任何后路。隔阂自此展开，男孩埋怨女孩不通情达理说话太过直接太伤人，遂分手。

有人对男孩说：“人家女孩在乎你才会发脾气，爱情哪有一帆风顺的？这女孩或许不完美，但如此真情不要轻易辜负！”此男答：“这种爱发脾气的女孩在我这儿直接pass！”我不死心：“女孩子都是要哄的，不然你这样很难追到女孩哦。”答曰：“这很难说啊。说不定我遇到一个一见钟情的女孩根本不用追；说不定我遇到一个非常喜欢我的还来追我呢！”

如此狗血的回应，我还能有何评价，即刻闭嘴闪人！但既是这样的男孩还自认为自己很有“侠士”情结，渴望真爱。只不过爱情在他的字典里只等于被爱。

別让自己后悔

人生最大的錯誤是用健康換取身外之物，

人生最大的悲哀是用生命換取個人的煩惱，

人生最大的浪費是用生命解決自己製造的麻煩....

你懂我再爱我

 

以为妳会开心 用飞奔倾诉爱意 来我 怀裡

为什么妳不靠近 愤怒得关上自己 泪眼 迷离

用多少心 才带來的惊喜
我还想说 你不听

你懂我再爱我 就不会伤害我
在幸福的路口 被失望牙垮了
你懂我再愛我 我就不会病了
害怕听见许诺 不知道能相信什么

男友友那么难找吗？

男朋友那么难找吗？

近来，朋友都跟我讨论这个话题。哈哈。。

“怎么会没有男朋友？是你要求高吧？”

“那么大了，赶快找一个咯。不然要做老姑婆咯。”

这些句话听到闲咯。

无意中看到一篇搞笑文章。所以就分享给大家。enjoy=)

Charlie Brown Cafe @ KLCC

celebrated shy ting's belated birthday at Charlie Brown Cafe.
We planned to get her a big surprise.
She was in dilemma in Levain and Charlie Brown.
So we had an idea to get two birds with one stone.
We bought a box of macaroon as birthday cake and celebrate at Charlie Brown Cafe.*perfect idea*

Full moon dinner

another birthday post!!

this time the birthday girl is not my friend but my niece.

oh no!!i become auntie! yer,sound old=(

had dinner with yap family at oversea restaurant.

this was the first time to have dinner at kuala lumpur.so far~

normally we have dinner nearby our house.

I like family dinner because this is the only chance that all of us can gather.

Hardly to see my cousin since grandparents passed away.

你快乐吗？慈济快乐营

这一篇文章应该几个月前就要写了。
可是那时候很忙，没时间写。
久而久之，忘了这一回事。
现在才想起。=P

三月去参加慈济快乐一日营。
为什么会去？就因为快乐这两个字。
相信大家都想快乐吧！！谁不想！废话！

音乐=治疗师

S.H.E is back.
看到S.H.E 隔了一年多，终于合体，真是感动。
超爱S.H.E 。每一首歌都那么好听。
小时候，常常在车里，播放S.H.E的歌，拿着歌词在车里唱。
连妈妈不会流行歌，在车也跟着我们一起唱。哈哈。。

以下是S.H.E在金曲奖 的演唱（百看不腻）：

The way to live well

1.  You need very little to be happy. Some simple plant food, modest shelter, a couple changes of clothes, a good book, a notebook, some meaningful work, and some loved ones.
2. Want little, and you are not poor. You can have a lot of money and possessions, but if you always want more, you are poorer than the guy who has little and wants nothing.
3. Focus on the present. Stop worrying about the future and holding onto the past. How much of your day is spent thinking about things other than where you are and what you’re doing, physically, at this moment? How often are we living as opposed to stuck thinking about other things? Live now and you live fully.

如何解压

新学期的时间表出了。

看了后，真是头痛。

几乎每天必须早上六点起来，读到旁晚六点。

看到时间表就快疯了。很难想象这个学期要怎么过。

一定要想办法怎么解压。

你凭什么埋怨生活不完美?

上天赐于我们生命，是要我们好好的过日子。
如果你认为你的生活太悲惨，而想结束生命，
那么请你想想，那些身体有残缺的人都那么坚强，
勇敢的活下去了，
你凭什么埋怨生活不完美？

请大家看看这位小女孩。
天真无邪的她，因为一场发烧导致四肢必须截肢。
上天如此对她那么的残忍。
但她还是选择坚强的生活下去。
虽然没手，但她能弹钢琴。
虽然没脚，但她能跳舞。
没了手脚的她，一定在生活中遇到很多困难。
她总是可以一一克服。
她有如其他人一样，可以烧菜煮饭，写字，画画。
真得很佩服她。
很佩服她的意志和毅力。
看到他，就让我联想到澳洲的nick vujicic .
两位真是生命中的战士。

Happy birthday to Elynn

Happy birthday to my dear,Elynn!!

Everyone is celebrate their 21st birthday.

However,i couldn't  celebrate with her.She is at Australia.

Miss you so much <3

Mei Yee and I decided to make a card to her.

I never make card again since 4 years ago.

I always make a card to our lovely high school classmates when their birthday.

I didn't know how to get those inspiration to make those cards last time.

And this time i had no any inspiration.

So i  got some idea from internet.

And the last decision was making a 3D card.

What a tough task!!

I have tried again and again.But failed.(

At last,i did it!!Wohoo!!

I planned to send it by pos laju.

Guess what!!The postage of the pos laju was RM90++.OMG!!

Normal postage was less than RM10.The difference was so huge!!

I was so worry that the card would reach after her birthday.

Thanks god that the card reached on her birthday.

Seem like i wasted my energy to worry about it.

Here's the pictures:

快乐的女子

　　

    做一个快乐的女子，

一定要快乐,不快乐也要制造快乐，

笑 容不一定能使世界绽放，

却可放松紧绷的胸膛，

Real Holiday Start Now

got result last week.

got my result at 5pm.

u know,5pm is the worst time to uni.

all the way to KL is jam.*hate*

I was so nervous while waited for the result because i did quite bad in first three papers.

What in my mind was:please just let me pass.I don't want to retake.I don't want to waste parents' money again.

Thanks god.I passed.Hooray!!

Date with mickey

Mickey is so hito and famous  in KL in this school holiday because there 's a mickey exhibition in midvalley.
Once i signed in facebook, friends posted up many mickey photos.
It made me feel wanna go.I'm a mickey fans since i was small.=P

went to midvalley with cousin.i hate go to midvalley.
There is always hard to find a parking no matter it is weekdays or weekend.
There's hundreds of mickey i guess.
Other than the traditional mickey,there are other version of mickey.
The students who design those mickey are excellent.
Their work are amazing.
Took a lot of photos.I just upload some of them.

Tadaa!!

选择爱自己，让自己快乐

 

长的漂亮是你的优势，

活的漂亮才是你的本事

什麽都可不好，心情不能不好

什麽都可缺少，自信不能缺少

什麽都可不要，快乐不能不要

我选择了爱我自己，让自己快乐，

也让别人一起快乐，因为唯有如此，

我才有一个快乐的世界。

孩子不坏

一个月前，看了孩子不坏。

这是一部具有意义又让人感动的电影。 

Girls,be alert and careful when you're out.

I used to go out alone.
But now,i not dare to go out alone anymore after i read a post on fb today.
I'm so scare after read this post.
Thanks Gods nothing happen on me when i went out last time.*phew*
Seem like the safety in town is getting worse and worse.tsk tsk.

You may have read the post on fb.
For those who haven't read the post yet,please read the post below that i shared.
Girls,read the post below carefully!
Boys,please read this too and share the post to your beloved female friends and family.

FInal was ended

i was so lazy to blog until now.
oh well!!i've done my final.
it was a disaster and tortured me for a month.gosh!!
just only one word to describe:STRESS!!
i felt like i got back to my old way.i hate it!!

女孩，如果你还单身

女孩，
如果你還單身，
看到身邊好友的戀愛，
請不要羨慕，
戀愛自有戀愛的煩惱，
單身自有單身的快樂...

女孩，
如果你還單身，
請不要嘆息，
不是你不好，
你只是還在等待他來的路上...

妈妈说

母亲节要到了！！

是不是觉得妈妈很唠叨呢？
妈妈说：我都是为你好。
妈妈还说什么呢？
看看以下的图吧〉〉〉
        

痛苦=紧紧抓住不快乐的理由

         
       人，哭着喊着跑到这个世界上来，面临的首要问题就是生存。要生存，就必然遇到竞争；有竞争，就必然有 压力。所以，只要你选择活着，就注定要承受生存所带来的各种各样的压力，如升学、就业、晋职等，不胜枚举，不一而足。我们只有勇于正视压力，学会承受压 力，才能在日趋激烈乃至残酷的生存竞争中，永远立于不败之地。
 
　 　当过运动员或看过运动员训练的人都知道，为了增强腰部和下肢力量，运动员常在教练的指导下做一种压杠铃的负重练习。通过压杠铃的练习，运动员的力量尤其 是腰部和下肢力量会迅速增强，奔跑和跳跃的能力会突飞猛进。当然，杠铃的重量一定要适当，轻了效果甚微，重了运动员受不了会闪了腰，而且杠铃重量的增加要 因人而异，循序渐进。

给自己的心情放假

　　

给自己的心情放假，让紧绷的神经松驰。在忙碌的生活中，顺便看看窗外吧，那株老树，它算是悟透了生命的真谛，历经千百年风雨的洗礼，知道如何应对自然 的变化。冰天雪地来临的时候，蜕去它所有华丽的服饰，赤裸裸挺立，经受严冬的考验，在默默的守候中积淀着充足的养分。来年春暖花开之际便会枝繁叶茂，向大 自然尽情展示它无穷的魅力。暴雨烈日，它撑开伞，责无旁贷的提供给那些需要它遮风挡雨的人。正由于有了这种胸襟，它便能久远地观望这世界；也因了它这种闲 适豁达的心怀，使人们对它无比崇敬。

• 学学它的博大的胸襟，用欣赏的眼光去看世界，用阅纳的心情去包容一切，让自己的心情多一份宽容，自己便也会变得淡定， 变得从容。

我要的好朋友

好朋友

好朋友就是
經常叫你「去死吧」的那些人

好朋友就是
老是說你有病
叫你看醫生的那些人

好朋友就是
抓住你的一個缺點
說上半天的那些人

Sem 2 small recap

erm..sem 2 had ended but not officially.

hopefully i can pass.*pray hard*

but my revision progress is very slow.

3 lecture notes in 1 day.

Is that possible that finish all my lecture note before final??tsk tsk

 let's recall what I'd done in sem 2.

uni 20th anniversary

 

Attitude is everything

How to start your day tomorrow??

Please read this and let it really sink in.then you will know.

Michael is the kind of guy you love to hate. He is always in a good mood and always has something positive to say. When someone would ask him how he was doing, he would reply, "If I were any better, I would be twins!"

He was a natural motivator. If an employee was having a bad day, Michael was there telling the employee how to look on the positive side of the situation.

Seeing this style really made me curious, so one day I went up to Michael and asked him, "I don't get it! You can't be a positive person all of the time. How do you do it?"

Be a Better You!

Life is not about finding yourself, but about creating yourself.
 If you are not sure who you are, work on making yourself the kind of person you would like to be.
You never get a second chance to make a first impression.
The man who says just what he thinks - should think.
Success is never final.

Life is a chain of moments of enjoyment, not only about survival

Today we have higher buildings and wider roads,
but shorter tempers and narrower points of view.

We spend more, but enjoy less.
We have bigger houses, but smaller families.
We have more compromises, but less time.
We have more knowledge, but less judgement.
We have more medicines, but less health.
We have multiplied our possessions, but reduced our values.
We talk too much, we love only a little, and we hate too much.

What makes you beautiful

Next time you look at someone thinking "I wish I was that pretty," remember that another person is thinking that same thought about you.

listen to "what makes you beautiful" by one direction in the radio everyday.

Earth Day,Save Earth

 

I don't even know 22nd April is Earth Day.

I only know earth hour is held on last Saturday of March.

The day which switch off light for 1 hour.

I was wondering what is Earth Day.Obviously is about save th earth.*nonsense*

 For more information,so i searched about earth day.

如何扫掉心中的树叶

每天早上都需要花費許多時間才能清掃完樹葉，這讓小和尚頭痛不已。他一直想要找個好辦法讓自己輕松些。

後來有個和尚跟他說：“你在明天打掃之前先用力搖樹，把樹葉統統搖下來，後天就可以不用辛苦掃落葉了。”

serious sick

have been sick for 1 week.

i never been sick so serious.

at first,sore throat follow by high fever,running nose and cough.

sore throat was killing me.damn pain.

thankful day

care the poeple who you love and people who need your help

带着期待的心情去KKB的残智障之家。

看到他们，心里很心酸,也觉得他们很可怜。

通常只会在电视看到这些情况。

可是这次他们却在我面前。

在城市是完全看不到这种情况。

直到现在，那个情景还浮现在我的脑海里。

有如师姑所说，

那里好像人间地狱。

My true story

Sister has shared a post that wrote from akirastory.com.

The article exactly said out what i feel when i was in high school and how this terrible experience has changed my mind. I was not that smart as the author but his article really impressed me.COOL!!i have suck writing skill and terrible english,so i always have problem to express my thought in words.

love this article so much.

i would like to share the post with you all!!

here's the post(it's kinda long) :

Capture your good moment

 

Life is like a camera.. 

Just focus on what's important and capture the good times, 

restless life

life is getting more stressful.arghhh.

many exams,tests and assignments are waiting for me in the following weeks.

i guess i've no time to sleep until EOS.

my brain is sucks..forgot what i want to remember,remember what i want to forgot. 

不必一味讨好别人

总会有人说你好 也会有人说你不好，
但只要做人做事问心无愧，就不必执着于他人的评判。